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Books by
Gary Chapman


LOVE IS A VERB:
Stories of What Happens When Love Comes Alive


THE LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE DEVOTIONAL:
A Ninety-Day Adventure That Makes Love a Daily Habit


LOVE AS A WAY OF LIFE:
Seven Keys to Transforming Every Aspect of Your Life


IT HAPPENS EVERY SPRING:
Four Seasons #1

with Catherine Palmer

SUMMER BREEZE:
Four Seasons #2

with Catherine Palmer

HOME IMPROVEMENTS:
The Chapman Guide to Negotiating Change With Your Spouse


EVERYBODY WINS:
The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing


THE FOUR SEASONS OF MARRIAGE:
Which Season of Marriage Are You In?


THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES FOR SINGLES

COVENANT MARRIAGE:
Building Communication & Intimacy


Reading Group Guides

THE FOUR SEASONS OF MARRIAGE

EVERYBODY WINS:
The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing



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EVERYBODY WINS: The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing
Gary Chapman
Tyndale House Publishers
Love & Marriage
ISBN: 141430014X

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About the Book

Every couple has disagreements. All too often, though, when we engage in arguments, our goal is not to resolve the conflict at hand, but rather, to win the fight. Unfortunately, when you win an argument, your spouse is the loser, and nobody wants to be or live with a loser. When you resolve a conflict, your spouse becomes your friend. Good marriages are based on friendship, not on winning arguments. Now, Gary Chapman provides couples with a simple blueprint for achieving win-win solutions to everyday conflicts and disagreements. By learning how to listen empathetically, respecting each other’s ideas and feelings, and understanding why particular issues are so important to their spouse, couples can find solutions that result not only in resolving the conflict at hand, but also leave both partners feeling loved, listened to, and appreciated.

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Discussion Questions


1. What do you find most painful about arguments?

2. What have arguments accomplished in your marriage?

3. Having an attitude of respect, love, and togetherness makes it possible to find win-win solutions to conflicts.  How open are you to changing your attitudes?

4. Conflicts that are resolved in a positive way create intimacy.  Can you think of a recent conflict that you resolved in a positive way?  What made the resolution positive?  If a recent conflict wasn’t resolved in a positive way, what kept you from reaching a resolution?

5. Once you understand your spouse, you have an opportunity to give an intelligent and loving response.  How intelligent and how loving was your response in your most recent conflict with your spouse?

6. Can you think of an illustration where “meeting later” or “agreeing to disagree” became a permanent solution to one of your conflicts?

EVERYBODY WINS: The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing Copyright 2017 by Gary Chapman. Reprinted with permission by Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.

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